Written by Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors on August 25, 2022
Experiencing a traumatic event doesn’t affect just your brain or your body — it actually affects both. It is common for trauma survivors to have physical symptoms due to the traumatic stress that can affect their sleep, mood, and relationships.
While a burn injury can actually cause pain in your body, the stress of the event itself can also present itself as physical pain. When trauma occurs, the nervous system activates, causing anxiety and a state of constant alarm. Even after the event, the body may still be in a constant state of alarm, commonly referred to as a “fight or flight” response.
Here are a few signs that your body may be experiencing trauma:
Headache
Neck, back, shoulder tension/aches
Fatigue
Difficulty breathing
Heart racing/chest ache
Stomach ache/Digestion problems
Difficulty concentrating
Sweating
Dealing with trauma is different for everybody—and there is no one-size-fits-all approach for what works for any. With that said, there are a variety of ways that you can help alleviate your traumatic stress and recover from the event; here are a few:
Seek Professional Help
Visiting a Psychologist or Mental Health Professional
Visit a Doctor
Practice self-care
Massage
Journaling
Exercise
Listen to music
Avoid alcohol or substance abuse
Get back into a routine
Trauma can significantly affect the quality of your sleep. It is easy to dwell on the traumatic event you experienced as you lay down for the night, leading to insomnia, restless sleep, or nightmares.
If you have a physical injury that still causes you pain, it can be even more difficult to sleep. The combination of physical and mental distress may make it feel like it is impossible to rest.
When your body begins to release that trauma, you are likely to notice your sleep problems becoming less severe.
Here are a few ways you can work to improve your sleep after trauma:
Practice meditation, especially as you go to sleep
Practice good sleep hygiene and have a dedicated nighttime routine
Maintain a regular sleep routine
Avoid daytime naps
Don’t stay in bed awake for more than 5-10 minutes
Don’t watch TV, use the computer, or read in bed
Drink caffeinated drinks with caution
Avoid inappropriate substances that interfere with sleep
Have a quiet, comfortable bedroom with clean, fresh air
Accept that your sleep may be disturbed and mentally prepare ahead of time (Practice acceptance that sleep is a challenge after trauma and that it can, in fact, improve with time. Consider employing new behaviors and tools when it becomes a problem)
Get exercise during the day to improve sleep
As time goes on, your injuries will heal. But a reduction in the pain or discomfort you feel, such as itching or other symptoms, may be another sign that your body is releasing trauma. Psychological distress can make physical discomfort worse.
Similarly, physical pain can affect your level of psychological distress and trauma. The pain is a reminder of the trauma that you suffered and feeds into worries about never getting better, either physically or mentally. In this way, your body and mind can feed off of one another in both positive and negative ways.
Fortunately, finding ways to deal with physical pain and discomfort can be more straightforward than dealing with mental distress. These may include:
Asking for help with physical care from a friend, family member, or medical professional
Being gentle with yourself and making allowances for your physical limitations as you heal
Attending physical therapy
Finding ways to reconnect with and move your body in safe ways, such as through yoga, dancing, or swimming
It is common to feel anxious or depressed after a traumatic event, especially one that involves physical trauma. A side effect of PTSD, as well as depression, includes losing interest in hobbies. You might feel listless or unable to concentrate or simply unable to feel invested in the things that you used to enjoy.
If you suddenly find yourself picking up a paintbrush, reading a book, or thinking about going for a job, it could be a sign that your body is beginning to release that trauma. However, it can be a long road to get to that point.
You may need to push yourself, with time and support, to try doing things for fun again. But it’s not necessary to force yourself to participate in all your old hobbies again. Finding yourself taking an interest in anything fun at all is a great sign.
One of the most common things that humans do after experiencing trauma is avoid talking about the event. It is natural to want to repress those memories — they are simply too painful to relive.
But talking about them is vital to moving past them. If you find yourself talking about your experiences with a friend or considering going to therapy, this is a great sign. It means that you are beginning to release that trauma and are feeling ready to move on to the next stage of your healing.
It is important to challenge yourself to talk with someone who can help you. Healing never comes with repressing emotions or trying to deal with trauma on your own.
Rejecting physical affection after a traumatic event is common, especially if you suffered a physical injury. It is natural not to want to be touched if you are in pain. But even if it’s not painful to be touched, it can still be emotionally overwhelming.
Feeling more open to physical affection, whether that means simple hugs or sexual intimacy, is another sign that your body is releasing trauma.
You may be able to get to this point by going slowly, one step at a time. If you’re wondering how to let go of trauma in the body, gentle physical activities like yoga can be a great first step.
Healing is a long and difficult process. If any of your physical trauma symptoms become overwhelming, speak to your doctor immediately. At Phoenix Society, we offer a Virtual Support Group that can help you talk about your trauma with others and discuss ways that other burn survivors are working to manage their trauma. In addition, our team can provide you with connections to a network of trauma-informed mental health providers that can connect you with support services.